How NOT To Coach Kids’ Sport

Guest:

Is tough love to blame for our shame?

We all know that parent or coach on the sideline who takes under 10’s basketball a liiitttllleee too seriously. And occasionally, tough love might seem to work in the moment, long term, the shame train isn’t going anywhere good.

Dr Emily, our resident psychologist, is here to name the shame to tame it, and teach us how we can be shame strippers too (get your head out of the gutter. Shame on you).

We go into the difference between shame, humiliation, guilt and embarrassment, bow down to the queen Brene Brown, and introduce ourselves to our own Healthy Adult.

Shamelessly, this is one of our best episodes to date.

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Chapters
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Ever heard of a shame stripper
6:27
Bow down to Brene Brown
12:25
The other selfconscious emotions theyre shy
20:51
Humour and humiliation
29:21
Shame is a full body experience
36:16
Beware of who you share with
40:43
Manosphere behaviour change
46:59
Tough love kids sport
57:07
Working with shame
1:06:10
Bring on the compassion
1:10:07
Introducing the Healthy Adult
Transcript
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